The Life You Truly Want and Need

The life you truly want and need….

Helping smart people and organizations communicate and lead forward smarter, faster and happier is what I do best
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Imagine a  happy workplace where everyone chooses to bring energy, passion, and a positive attitude to the job every day.  Would this workplace create greater harmony, team spirit, innovation, satisfaction and economic abundance?

Imagine a happy home environment in which family members can appreciate each other and where unconditional love and acceptance are the hallmarks of the home. Would this  home environment provide a haven of love, security and positive energy?

Imagine a happy life where you feel connected to your family, your work, your colleagues, your customers, your neighbors.  Would this  life fill you with meaning, motivation and satisfaction?

Imagine how you can start to create happiness at work, at home and in all your relationships?  Where does happiness start?  It starts with your imagination, your thoughts.  It starts with being a vigilant warrior dedicated to combating negativity, judgment, criticism and embracing an attitude of service.
No man/woman is an island onto himself/herself.  It is our relationships with others, the quality of our social and personal intercourse that cements our happiness.  We are not human doings, we are human beings.  Until we reclaim our humanity, until we recognize that the seedbed of our energy lies in our connection to others we will suffer from a personal energy crisis that will attack our power, vitality, inspiration and innovation. Now more than ever amidst fierce competition in every industry, amidst societal change and chaos, amidst the breakdown of tradition and the emergence of a flat model of business, the relationships we create are a powerful vortex for personal and professional success, satisfaction and happiness

Personal and business relationships can only grow and thrive when they are built on service.  Service can only be shared, be given to others when we rise above ego and ask not what we can get, but what we can give.  Service provides value, and is also a value that distinguishes the weak from the chaff.  Service is not for the weak hearted or the short sighted, but for the valiant, the victorious of spirit, who want to live each day, in every way, with joy and satisfaction.  Service is a value that we seem to have forgotten, but it is part of our heart, our head and our soul. It is the wonderful, endearing, soulful, successful part of being a human being and not simply a human doing.

Spend the next 24 hours without the desire to receive for the self alone.  Go against the flow and get happier.  Try service on for size for just one day.  Reach out to as many people as you can in service, in relationship. Value yourself, appreciate yourself for all that you can do to move forward today in service.



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3 replies
  1. Julianne Blake PhD
    Julianne Blake PhD says:

    You are certainly a powerful force for joy, and you exemplify “being a vigilant warrior dedicated to… embracing an attitude of service.” That’s an enormous contribution. I coach people dealing with chronic pain and chronic illness, which often brings on depression. So I sometimes find that people have to start with compassion and nourishing service to themselves (not self-serving) and then they are easily inspired to move forward in service to others as you so highly recommend. I have a recent post on this essential self-care. If you are interested, please visit and check it out at To your joy in abundant soulful service! Julianne Blake

    • Irene Becker
      Irene Becker says:

      Julianne: Thank you so much for your very kind message. I am truly dedicated to learning, sharing, contributing-to service! And, I am honored that you took the time to write. I am fascinated by your coaching niche, as the need to help people with chronic pain and illness is SO important, and requires so much wisdom, compassion, EQ-IQ-SQ (my 3Q skills triad!). I look forward to seeing the link you sent me. I would also like to be in touch. My email is

      I wish you much strength, great continued success in your mission. Hats off to you for making an incredible difference in the lives of those who suffer from chronic pain and illness!

      Yours in soulful service, Irene


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